這位單親媽媽雪莉 (Sherry) 上傳了她六歲的女兒蒂安娜 (Tiana) 目睹她和爸爸吵架後跟她講的話,許多網友看完影片後都被小女孩的成熟與智慧給深深感動。
影片一開頭,蒂安娜就用一種小大人的語氣先問媽媽「妳準備好當爸爸的朋友了嗎?」
蒂安娜說「要當朋友的時候試著不要這麼高 (激動),我希望事情可以很低 (平穩)。盡妳最大的努力就好。」
「我不希望你跟爸爸被取代,或是又對彼此很壞。我希望你們兩個人都好好的,希望你們當朋友。如果我可以對別人好,那大家一定都可以做到。我也有盡我最大的努力。」
「我希望你跟爸爸都可以當好朋友,我希望看到大家的笑容。不想要看到大家生氣。尤其是你跟爸爸跟奶奶。」
「我的心很重要、大家的心都很重要。如果我們住在大家都很壞心的世界,那大家以後都會變成怪獸。」
「怪獸會把剩下的人吃掉,以後就會沒有人了,所以我們需要大家都當一個人。我只希望每件事情、每個人都能夠好好的,沒有別的。」
看到爸媽吵架一般的小孩可能會害怕地哭泣,更別提給父母建議了!但是這個小女孩年僅6歲能夠說出這些話,真的是令人太佩服了,看以下影片更能感覺到小女生是用多麼成熟的態度在面對這一切。
Must watch!! After came back from badminton I Open the garage door try to drive my car in and heard Tiana voice yelling “stopped mama”!! my shoe rack fallen down in the garage all over 50 pairs of shoes and the rack are on the ground. I get out of the car walk into the garage And Alfred came out yelling to me that my shoes rack was suck!! Complaining I bought a cheap shoes racks good for nothing!on and on..And I told him to just move get out of the way if he doesn’t want to help then go away!as I get upset so didn’t make it sound nice and friendly. Tiana offered to help me put up shoes on the rack That I rebuilt after all it done I am going to move the car in but Alfred offered help to tight up some lopes to help stabilized while he do that…… Tiana said in front of both of us, Why you guys don’t try to be nice to each other… Like a friends helping each other don’t get mad and be happy!! Lots more I was stunned by it! She is teaching me!! Woke me up!!! And then we sit down only me and Tiana And this is part of it as didn’t think she could think like that!! She brought me tear and feel guilty Amazing little girl Her name is TIANA!!
Posted by Cherish Sherry on 2015年9月16日
來源:Buzzfeed|Facebook
在大人吵的臉紅耳赤的時候反而是一個小女生最冷靜,她勇於說出自己的感覺又為人著想的精神真的非常值得大家的學習。看完之後別忘了分享出去,讓大家都看看這麼了不起的女孩!
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